Relationship researchers, in recent years, have written extensively about the overall patterns of behavior that make or break a human bond. This article #3 in my series: “How To Love”, is a very basic introduction to the cyclic nature of this dance of love. It turns out that these basic behaviors are universal so we […]
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How To Love, Part 2: Why COAL In Your Holiday Stocking Is Good News
In part 2 of this series, simple things you can do to bring love into your life are described using Dr. Dan Siegel’s acronym COAL as a reminder. C stands for Curiosity, O is for Openness, A is for Acceptance and L is for Love. These simple attitudes are keys to how we can turn toward […]
How to Love, Part 1: The Dance’s Most Essential Step
Welcome to my series of articles on how to bring loving relationship into your life. As Dr. Sue Johnson and a growing number of other masters in the field of attachment, neuroscience and relationship research are asserting: we now know a great deal about what love consists of in terms of human behavior. This means […]